Four ways to DO better and BE better 

in your marriage:

1. Take an inventory of how you spend your time and where you devote your energy. That will tell you where your heart is. 

2. Pray to have your heart attuned to your Wife's  (spouse's) heart.

3. Seek to bring her (him) joy.

4. Seek her (his) counsel and listen. 

Russell M. Nelson April 2019